This past week, I was sick with the stomach flu, and then when I started to feel better, my two-year-old daughter came down with pink-eye. And I know I’m not alone. Lots of our friends and their kids have been sick recently with various ailments in this wet, dreary January.
Illness is jarring. One moment you’re totally fine and then the next minute, you’re out of commission. The experience reminds us how vulnerable our bodies really are. We like to think that we can plan and get tasks accomplished but our sickness (or that of our kids) demonstrate how tentative our plans actually are. As the Yiddish phrase goes: Mann traoch, Gott lauch Man plans, God laughs.
However, I don’t even feel entitled to write that I had a lousy week – given the earthquake in Haiti. One minute everything in Haiti was fine, and then the next minute witnessed devastation of catastrophic proportions.
How fitting then that this week, we read about the plagues. Like illness or an earthquake, the plagues came on suddenly and threw everything out of whack with drastic, debilitating physical maladies. After a few days, the plagues passed, just as suddenly as they had come.
Moses and Aaron had appeared before Pharaoh and asked that he “let my people go,” which he refused. So God brought successive plagues of increasing severity. For the first plague, Pharaoh was not overly impressed. However during each of the subsequent plagues, Pharaoh relented, but once the plague was over, Pharaoh changed his mind and refused to free the slaves.
This week, I thought of Pharaoh and identified with him a little. My first day of feeling well after being sick felt like a miracle. Nothing exciting happened; I just took Hannah to the doctor for her pink eye and took care of her at home. But still, I was so grateful that I could function and wasn’t in pain that I couldn’t be upset about anything. But after a few days, I again became stressed (about all that I hadn’t accomplished in the days that I was sick) and forgot the wonder of just feeling physically okay.
The story of Pharaoh reveals something fundamental about human psychology. Often, we’re compassionate in a crisis but less so thereafter. For example, in the immediate aftermath of an earthquake or tsunami, people from all over the world give generously – which is absolutely essential. But once the coverage dies down, we forget about people in need, day in and day out.
Pharaoh’s example leaves me with the question: How can we hold on to the gratitude and compassion we feel during a crisis once it has passed?
I once saw a woman wearing a shirt that said: “Too blessed to be stressed.” I imagined wearing that phrase on a bracelet as a daily to keep things in perspective. Likewise, the prayer that is traditionally said each morning after going to the bathroom acknowledges the vulnerability of our bodies, that if one of our intricate parts was “blocked or opened, then it would be impossible to exist.” This prayer thanks God, who “heals all flesh and works wonders.”
For me, most often, the daily reminders come from watching my children. When my daughter was home with pink-eye, my husband Tal called to check how she was doing. We were having a boring morning at home. She was playing with a puzzle while I put away the laundry. When Tal asked her how she was, she said, “I’m having a fun time at home.” My children remind me that even the most mundane moments of life are miracles.
When the Plague Subsides
Posted by Rabbi Ilana Grinblat
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I understand your point, but you should consider the context of your examples.ReplyDelete
You say, "One minute everything in Haiti was fine, and then the next minute witnessed devastation of catastrophic proportions." The fact is, that while the earthquake in Haiti most certainly was "deveastation of catastropic proportions," everything was not fine in Haiti before hand. Most of Haiti was in fact miserable.
Haiti is the least developed country in the Americas, and one of the least developed countries in the world. The Haitian people have suffered greatly throughout most of the country's existence. This does not make the earthquake any less tragic or disasterous, but to say that everything was fine misrepresents the situtation And in fact, experts all agree that the ramapant poverty and other ailments of Haiti worsened both the immediate impact and Haiti's long-term recovery prospects.